Thanks goes to my great friend and musician, David Restivo, for hipping me to this great Bernstein doc., focusing on his teachers and teaching.
Some of my takeaways?
We are all students and all teachers.
Strong personalities in music giving you seemingly opposite messages is good, and we need to reconcile them and work them out.
Intent is everything.
Be honest with your fellow musicians and students ALWAYS.
But, as all things in music, check out yourself and come to your own conclusions. That's an hour very well spent.